The Sentimental Novel |
Twenty-seven years afterwards, Sterne borrowed the fine phrases he employed in writing to Miss Lumley and used them in his courtship of Mrs Draper. It is a mysterious business. Writing other people's love letters gave useful practice to several literary men. Thomas de Quincey performed this service for two young servant girls in Merionethshire. 'It did not require any great penetration to discover that what they wished was that their letters should be as kind as was consistent with proper maidenly pride ... on all such occasions I gave great satisfaction to my humble friends and was generally treated with hospitality.'
Did he keep copies of the letters when he wrote them, or did he recover them at a later stage? It has been suggested that he used old flowers of speech not through idleness but because he felt he could not do any better. It has also been suggested, charitably, that his papers were badly confused when edited. However, there is Steele's example to show that a literary man does not like to waste good love letters. If he did plagiarize from his own works, Sterne stands a step or two above those who have not hesitated to lift whole passages from the love letters of better men.
A youth and maiden, meeting by chance, or brought together by artifice, exchange glances; reciprocate civilities, go home and dream of one another. Having little to divert attention or diversify thought, they find themselves uneasy when they are apart and therefore conclude they shall be happy together. They marry and discover what nothing but voluntary blindness before had concealed; they wear out life in altercations and charge nature with cruelty. However, he assured Boswell that a father had no right to control the inclinations of his daughter in marriage. Sir, she had read the old romances and had got into her head the fantastical notion that a woman of spirit should use her lover like a dog. So, Sir, at first she told me that I rode too fast and she could not keep up with me; and when I rode a little slower she passed me and complained that I lagged behind. I was not to be made the slave of caprice; and I resolved to begin as I meant to end. I therefore pushed on briskly till I was fairly out of her sight. The road lay between two hedges so I was sure she could not miss it; and I contrived that she should come up with me. When she did I observed her to be in tears. Boswell's courtships have received ample publicity in recent years. In one of his essays he complains that too exquisite a standard of imagination and sensibility has been set by certain impassioned individuals, who have expressed themselves 'with perhaps some additional force beyond what was actually felt'. In consequence a fashion in love had been set up, and persons with only one-tenth the sensibility now felt it necessary 'to represent themselves as undergoing every species of anguish which they suppose has been experienced by illustrious prototypes of love'. As the Romantic movement developed, Boswell's criticism gained in validity.
Tliis is mighty pretty romantic stuff! but you learn it out of your playbills and novels. Girls in my time had other employments ; we worked hard at our needles and kept ourselves from idle thoughts; before I was your age I had finished with my own fingers a complete set of chairs, and a line screen in ten-stitch. ... I never looked into a book but when I said my prayers, except it was the Complete Housewife or the great family receipt book. . . . Ah, I never knew a woman come to good that was fond of reading! Just as the plays which vexed the Puritans had shown the outwitting of parents by lovers and their allies, so the theme of popular literature now became the rebellion of young love against elders who strove to make matches for sordid ends. The young lady of the day had to balance what she read in romances against the advice of her well-intentioned parents. How (one wonders) did the daughters of Dr Gregory of Edinburgh marry-if they married? After his death the doctor's private counsel to his family was published as A Father's Legacy to His Daughters (1774). He held out little hope of a love match, 'Without an unusual share cf natural sensibility and very peculiar good fortune a woman in this country has very little probability of marrying for love,' he wrote. This was his conception of marriage: A man of taste and delicacy marries a woman because he loves her more than any other. A woman of equal taste and delicacy marries him because she esteems him and because he gives her that preference. Marriage, he warned, would 'at once dispel the enchantment raised by extraordinary beauty', but if the couple had other necessary virtues, their union would be supportable. Dr Gregory did not believe that women should sit back and wait to be discovered. He was all for 'an easy intercourse between the sexes, which occasions an emulation and exertion in each to excel and be agreeable, hence their respective excellencies are mutually communicated and blended'. But the impression gained from Dr Gregory is that if a girl was lucky enough to receive an offer from a man of good sense, morals, temper, fortune and family, 'free from any loathsome hereditary disease', she ought to be well content.
Observe how far I go; I don't urge you, hand over head, to have this man at all events; but for God's sake and your own sake give himself and yourself fair play. Don't decide so positively against it. If you do, you are ridiculous to a high degree. The cry of the father, in this century, was no less poignant than the cry of the daughter. |