Is He Worth A Try Or Not?

How do you decide whether a man is worth a try? It is a hard decision to make and really depends on what you are seeking from life and a man.

The basis of life in general and dating in particular is the answer to a question you must ask your self "what do I expect from a man?"

This will put things in perspective and answer is ‘X' Mr. Right?
For most women the "ideal" man is one who:

· Has a sense of humor.
· Is not critical of others.
· Does not see himself as god's gift to women.
· Has a deep sense of fairness and loyalty.
· Respects women and does not see them as "bare foot and pregnant."
· Is kindness and warmth personified.
· Is intelligent and appreciates an intelligent and successful woman.

In order to determine whether Mr. X is the guy you are looking for, you need to be open-minded and view him as an individual separate from your dad, ex-husband, or previous lover/boyfriend. You must be willing to communicate - unless lines of communication are kept open you will never be able to discover each other.

Have the right mindset-is looks and money important or are they by the by? Men are astute and know immediately when someone is chasing them not for themselves but for their wealth. Decide -it is the man who is important not drop dead good looks or being rich. Look for quality not materialistic things. Try and match the man to what you yourself are. It is love and commitment you need to aim for.

Put the man before other future plans like having kids-many men will run if they think all you want to do is have kids before your biological clock stops ticking. Men like to feel needed for themselves. So never discuss setting up a home with a yard, a nursery, or which school/college your kids will go to.

Be attractive at all times-it boosts your confidence. Have a make over, do your hair, wear attractive clothes. You never know when or how you may meet the man-suppose you are chatting online and the conversation veers towards turning on the "webcam" -imagine being in a duster coat or unattractive t-shirt.

According to relationship advisers', being dressed well boosts confidence levels and makes one feel pretty on the inside and outside.

Leave the past way behind -when chatting only speak of what you are, what makes you tick, what you enjoy and so on. Also try and find out as much as you can about the man-see if his "perfect woman" list matches what you are.

Glance beyond good looks and determine how good he is at relationships by finding out how he relates with his mother, sisters, cousins, and people at the office. You can tell if he is caring and considerate by drawing out answers to questions placed cleverly while chatting.
A man is worth a try if:

· He matches most of your must have list.

· You look forward to his e-mails and chatting online.

· His photo is attractive.

· You have a few common interests.

· He is admiring of your achievements and activities.

· He has complimented you in his e-mails and shown interest.

· He is considerate and lets you know when he is away or busy so that you are not left wondering why he has not replied to the mail.

· Is willing to speak with you on the phone.

· Does not seem to be hiding anything and is open with his answers.

Once you know for sure you are interested, do arrange to speak over the phone. You need not reveal your personal number but use facilities provided by dating sites.
If you are nervous about what to say read up articles on dating and speaking over the phone---treat the man like a friend and not a potential lover. This will alleviate uneasiness to a large extent.

Gather courage and forge ahead-be prepared and accept disappointments, it is not the end of the world, around every corner is a rainbow.

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