Reasons why he may not be the one for you

There is nothing worse then spending time investing yourself into a relationship and finding out that the guy that you have been dating is not the one for you. Here are a few reasons that may have you wanting to move on.

Your guy is not the one if he is smothering you. For example if he is not right there with you he is calling you on the phone constantly. Or if as soon as you get online and sign into your instant messenger you already have a message from him. And when you try to talk to him about the way that he is behaving he becomes extremely irritated with you. This is a very bad sign and you should definitely get out of your relationship.

Your guy is not the one for you if he does not hold a steady job and is unable to and does not seem to care about taking care of his financial obligations. He should be your partner and not a child that needs to be supported. You also may want to reconsider your relationship if your guy has fathered children with several different women and is not doing his part in supporting them. That really does not say a lot about his sense of responsibility.

You may want to rethink your relationship if you have children either together or from a previous relationship and your guy seems to be competing with your children for your affections and for your time. He should also not be asking you to put him in front of your children. Your kids should be number one in your life and it needs to be clear that the relationship that you have with your partner is completely different form the one that you have with your children.

If your guy is showing issues with anger management but is showing no signs of wanting to get help to fix the problem you need to get you of your relationship. This is especially important for your safety and the safety of any young children that may be involved.

While everyone knows that there are all types of people out there and that no relationship is 100% perfect it can really do you some good if you know that there are some "types" that you should avoid altogether. You should only want the very best for yourself when it comes to your relationship. And most of all you should believe that you deserve only the very best.